Okaaaay. How does one buy a boat exactly? Google, Google, Google, Google. Wow. There are a lot of boats. Lots of different kinds of boats. Should we build a boat? NOOOO! Can we afford a new boat? NOOOOOO! Do we want a wooden boat? NOOOOOO! Monohull or catamaran? Monohull (Cats are too expensive).
Okay, so we want a used, fiberglass, monohull sailboat. It needs to be big enough to live aboard. And weโre too old to go climbing over one another to get in and out of bed, so a centerline berth is important. And we want a separate shower stall. And we donโt want a cast iron keel so when we run it into something we donโt rip the bottom off.
Now weโre getting somewhere: a fiberglass, monohull, single-masted, center-cockpit (centerline berth in aft cabin!) sailboat, between 38 and 48 feet long. We know itโs going to be used and need some work. Because thatโs what we can afford without borrowing any money, which is out of the question.
If you were wondering, South Central Texas is close to exactly no large bodies of water. We were going to need to travel to look at boats. You know where there are lots of boats? Florida! Florida has LOTS of boats. Letโs go to Florida. So we went.
Over 5 days, we looked at boats from Jacksonville all the way down to Miami.ย It was a LOT of driving.ย The dream almost died on day one.ย The first boat, a Gulfstar 44, was, shall we say, disappointing.ย Not clean.ย Not particularly well-maintained.ย Kind of shabby.ย Kim and I thought โWell, if this is what we can afford, letโs look at van life again!โย We also looked at a Beneteau 44 Center Cockpit that was very nicely maintained and clean.ย But it was pricey and we would have still needed to put money into it to equip it for offshore cruising.ย I LOVED the Stephens Custom 50 we looked at.ย It was a lot of boat, but was absolutely gorgeous.ย And it seemed affordable.ย Until we got inside and saw that the sole boards were warped.ย Ummm, this boat has been storm-damaged and had water inside.ย No thanks!
Do you like rom-coms? Of course you do: those fairly cheesy, romantic movies where the guy looks across a crowded room and sees โThe Oneโ? Whatโs not to like? Well, that happened.

To me.

To Kim? Not so much.


We went to a private marina to see a 1985 Stevens 47. The minute I saw Destiny, I loved her lines. She looked graceful and sleek, as if she were born to move through the water. Itโs probably because the Sparkman and Stephens design took me back the Tartan 34 I grew up on. She seemed like she was in fairly good shape with very little recent use. But there was that item from the listing: โAsk broker about water intrusion event.โ Ummm, okay.
Me: Whatโs the deal with this โwater intrusion eventโ?
Broker: Well, in 2020, while the owner was away, one of the seacocks failed and water began to come into the boat. Fortunately, someone noticed and they were able to get the boat to a lift and out of the water within a couple of hours.
Me: So she almost sank.
Broker: NO. She had some water come in through the seacock.
Me: How much water?
Broker: Well, it was above the sole boards by about 6 inches.
Me: So she almost sank.
Broker: NO! She had a water intrusion event.
Me (in my head): Brokers only use the word โsinkโ for a basin in which one washes hands or dishes.
Kim and I moved on.
Well, mostly. Actually, Kim did move on. I kept flashing back to first laying eyes on Destiny.
You know the rom-com where the girl falls in love with the boy whom she has never met but with whom she exchanges letters? The foreign exchange student? That happened too.
Kim fell hard for a Taswell 43 up on Vancouver Island in Canada. Man, she had it bad for that boat. And she was a beauty and really well-equipped. She got the alert on a Saturday morning about the new listing and immediately reached out to the broker and to our broker.
That week was a blur. We decided to go for that boat sight unseen. We would make an offer right away and then see the boat for the first time when we went for the survey. We even offered over the asking price. We might have gotten a little carried away. Itโs probably for the best that our offer was declined. She ended up going for well over the asking price. Well over. We decided to cool off for a bit.
We continued to look at boat listings and compare notes, but nothing really excited us. I may have mentioned a few times that I really liked that Stevens 47โฆ


Even though I’ve heard some of this in person, it’s so much fun to read!
KM
This is so much fun! Thanks Bob and Kim. Keep up the writing I love hearing about this. Good luck on your hunt and keep us informed!
Thanks!